First Dates often yields awkward and surprising moments, and that is part of its charm. The show aims to help participants find love, but success isn’t guaranteed. Like many dating experiences, the magic often lies in small, telling details.
The program is hosted by a familiar presenter and has grown in popularity since its debut in 2016. Its success led to talk of a film adaptation in some markets, and the format has become a staple in prime time weekday viewing for many audiences.
Noelia is a 26-year-old who isn’t fond of going out and prefers the idea of a steady partner, while Fernando is a 34-year-old cook who shares many outlooks with Noelia and keeps a close eye on the future he envisions.
During their dinner they discussed life close to nature, a love for animals, and what they want to build in the years ahead. Age didn’t stop them from opening up and learning about one another. Noelia is 26 and Fernando is 34. Although the dinner felt right, the ending hinged on a single detail that proved challenging for the bachelor.
Fernando’s detail that ends history
“What did you come to First Dates for?” Fernando asked at dessert. Noelia answered with sincere clarity: “I’m looking for a stable relationship. I value time spent with a partner, and I’d like to work two jobs, one for myself and one with my partner, and when the moment is right, start a family.”
“So you want children,” he replied. “Yes, of course,” she affirmed, while he seemed to hesitate. After the date, Noelia explained her feelings: “He caught me off guard, and I don’t forgive the idea of not wanting children.”
Fernando later spoke on the show about his reservations, saying that the subject of children was not something he was open to at all.
Final decision
Fernando expressed a desire to keep exploring their connection, noting there were many shared sentiments and moments of alignment despite the sticking point about children. For her part, although she enjoyed the connection and felt comfortable, Noelia did not want to pursue a second date, and Fernando reiterated that he did not want children. The outcome underscores how two people can connect in conversation yet diverge on key life plans, shaping whether a potential relationship moves forward.