A common plight is the way the murders of gender-based violence are treated even after tragic deaths. The latest victim, Rita, in Alicante, is a stark example. During the funeral service held for the assailant, the priest mentioned that he had shared a life of “suffering” with Rita. In other words, he suggested that media reports might not tell the full story and that the perpetrator deserved sympathy. The same man who punched Rita and shot her. Colleagues of Rita noted in conversations that he had driven her to become unhappier than when she first arrived.
Each summer, a spike in gender-based violence recurs. It is predictable, yet protocols for detection or health centers are not reinforced. Professionals explain that this rise stems from a simple factor: holidays. More time together means a higher risk. That is the truth.
Adding to the issue are disputes in separated or divorcing relationships over which parent should spend days with their children. Dozens of scenarios can trigger a peak in violence during these periods. It is not just the summer; holidays like Easter or Christmas can also see surges. Still, those who commit violence do not need a disagreement to erupt. A stray remark like a “good morning,” the way an object is moved, or a seemingly minor pose can be enough for many abusers to escalate.
Even with this understanding, doubts linger about whether these concentrated killings during specific days reflect a contagion effect. People seek simple explanations, so sometimes researchers look for one cause. The answer, however, has long been clear: sexism. It is not exceptional, nor are a few isolated incidents; it is woven into society and education. Every day, around 500 women file formal complaints, while many others live in environments that block them. A small number face high risk, while others remain inadequately protected. The perpetrators are numerous, and misogyny remains present in homes and in many forms.
Perhaps the focus on a contagion effect should shift to scrutinizing a society that harms survivors and sanitizes the image of aggressors. If a relationship falters, divorce exists as a lawful path. Taking legal steps when needed is part of that process. But those who view women as property will not be swayed by reforms. What is clear is that violent acts do not solve relationship conflicts, especially in cases of assault and fatal shootings.
Progress may come when society accepts that there is no mysterious “call” triggering violence. Instead, misogyny operates as a constant, present in daily life. People may be attacked in packs, because sexism exists in large quantities. Some attempt to erase or justify it, urging that nothing should change.