My past text It was not a bombshell, but a slap in the face, that if they had not achieved success with our women, the immigrants would not have come to us so much and would not have stayed with us so often. The same villagers who did not have enough women began to scream. They were offended by my saying that you have so many men, that even if a woman has a box on her back and a family at home, she would be better off alone or would follow an immigrant.
Am I wrong? Don’t we have such men? Now I was in the civil court and found myself in a huge queue of divorced men. A rare coincidence, but everyone in the queue was men of 25-35 years old, everyone had come for a court decision or a warrant of execution. I was 23rd in the queue, before me and after me there were all the men who came to the court for a divorce. You should have seen and heard about them. Not a single thin man, each of them has some kind of gel on his belly, their hair is thinning. They sat and complained to each other about their exes: this, that and that, they spent money, did nothing at home, they ask for alimony from their white salary, but the children are not stupid and got out of it. I listened, but I could not understand: how did they get married, how did they manage, to whom did they surrender?
But since they divorced through the courts, they either have children or property that needs to be divided. Do you still remember the Soviet joke? A man came to the antenatal clinic and was surprised: Who has no children? In court, you will gasp: it is surprising who they did not marry.
If you take into account that we have significantly more men between the ages of 20 and 25 than women, imagine how many of them are worse than the men I have met in court, because the competition race was won by men who were already skinny at the age of 15. 25, who whine about their own lives to the first person they meet.
I will not say that young women have no role models, but the situation is alarming. I recommend that you browse dating apps in your free time. You do not need to register there: today there are many channels on Telegram where profiles of inappropriate people are posted. So to speak, to warn my friends. Women’s solidarity: if you meet a crazy person, leave him, walk away and tell your friend. In short, TG is the watchman of evolution. A friend of mine got into such a channel, and at first I started reading them from time to time. Dear mother, what a horror! If you read such a channel in your free time, you will not even know how young people get married. For whom?
Let’s start with the fact that men on dating sites mostly consist of men over 30 and very strange young guys, because it is easy for a 20-25 year old non-foreigner to find a partner.
These are very strange citizens, 30-45 years old. Everyone is looking for someone young, “not spoiled”, who knows how to cook, who does not go to parties, modest, beautiful. Why do they need a 40-year-old man from Khrushchev in the Biryulyovo district, I have not read anywhere. But among our villagers this fashion for the young and “unspoiled” is very widespread. I think that many people grow up, grow old and die in anticipation of a young beauty who will sit at home and cook soup.
This is the type of man most often found on dating apps: middle-aged, spoiled, but sincerely convinced that nothing is dangling and that they remain fresh, cheerful and interesting until their grave.
The second group is married people. The situation is paradoxical: in Russia there are many men who cannot find a woman and even unite in different incel communities. At the same time, we have many married people who are constantly in search. Since women generally have a worse attitude towards sex without commitment, married people are forced to lie. Oh, these little men with fast, oily eyes, who by the age of 45 have a stroke from constant stress: they lie and hide everywhere. The goal is only to get into another bed. There are many of them, they are wandering around the marriage market, significantly complicating the situation. Vitaly Milonov recently proposed creating a dating service for the hookup of married people, registering through the “State Services”. Something is delayed; it is already delayed.
Another category of dating site users are investors. Judging by the complaints, I can say that at least one fifth of the profiles alive today are investment scammers and participants of financial pyramids. They constantly complain about them. The program is standard: a photo from Dubai on the cover, stories about “success”, a few days of correspondence, and then an offer of investment assistance. Another option is assistance with sports betting. The photos are hung by foreigners, mostly foreign artists and athletes are chosen. I can imagine how confused young girls will be when they meet a handsome man in front of this damned world, and then he tells them how profitable it is to play the stock market and invest all night. If I met someone like that once or twice, I would lose hope of finding a normal person.
But there are very few normal ones. After all, in addition to incompetent people with great demands, married men and investors, there is also a large category of men who have a strong competitive spirit with women in the marriage market. They compete to see who can fool whom more! It’s the same with us; everything has shifted to market relations. For 30 years, women have been taught that sex is a commodity. Men – this sex is success. Now some are trying to sell themselves at a higher price, while others are trying to fool themselves and get it for free.
Dating has become a competition to see who can deceive more skillfully. Men pretend to be rich, share fake photos with yachts, complain that they are tired of their beloved “not going abroad”. If they are lucky, they will bring a new girlfriend to their daily home. And they tick the box – wow, I cheated on you! He created a predator! “Predator” will leak information about the scum to another site. “Girls, be careful, the one who wants free sex is not who he says he is.” But I still saw a time when offering paid sex was the last resort for those in poverty. They scared me: if you work a little, you will become a prostitute! How times have changed…
The idea that there can be no free relationships, that a man must “invest”, turns off a significant part of traditionally normal men. After all, the majority of young people are not stupid. Most of them are normal. Average. But a significant percentage of these normals will never find a woman because somewhere they will come across girls who have always been taught that they should be worth something. Of course, a hat, according to Senka. But when the meaning of a young man’s life is not dust in the eyes, but outright deception, everyone is upset.
But I think there are more normal women than normal men these days. That is, those who take care of themselves, are not completely stupid, work, are not antisocial, and have healthy attitudes towards long-term relationships and families.
And as the generation grows, the difference increases: after 30, not only normal ones, but all men become smaller. If it is not easy for a 20-year-old girl to find an understandable partner, despite the large number of men among her peers, then what can we say about those who stay with the girls until the age of 30? There is no one to choose from. Peers are waiting for young people like air on the seashore. They show off with their peers. Yes, yes! I increasingly see stories about how men expect women to provide support, help, and money. On TG, there are many messages about men who indicate in their profile on a dating site that they need help. Well, or when they meet, they ask for money: for a job, for a car, or even for sneakers and alimony.
There are many stories about gigolos who have been held for years, and they are all very ugly, unhealthy men. The older generations make fun of the younger generations for the imposed equality and the claim that men no longer pay for girls in restaurants. But I see that women over 35 often pay for their peers everywhere. And they often complain that a friend of theirs ran away from a restaurant without paying after a first date. I started a channel here, something about exposing men; there are three posts in a row about how men don’t pay for themselves in restaurants, how they only go on dates to eat. Plate players? I don’t know, after 35 it seems like there are only bell ringers.
Who should I meet? God be with him, his family, his children. Who should a woman be interested in? Especially if she is over 30, fat, drunk or plays games or online casinos. Half of them will be sure to be valuable students, one in five will be scammers or so-called investors, one in ten does not pay for himself in a restaurant.
Our men look bad, eat little, get sick early and drink too much.
A small percentage of very young men began to take care of themselves and monitor their health. Among the rest, the situation is deplorable; if you meet normal ones, there are few women and tails. Pale men who believe that they are worthy of a young girlfriend, of course, will now start to resent. In the meantime, they are angry and angry at such messages, women are silently crying. There is no one to go on a date after 30. Literally, there is almost no normal.
The author expresses his personal opinion, which may not coincide with the editors’ position.