Zinaida Lobanova How to have sex without a psychologist 02.02.2024, 08:05

There is a simple rule: If you say something on camera on the Internet, think about it. Think about it because then they can broadcast all this and the 10 second conversation will turn into years of problems. But there is a second rule that everyone forgets faster than the first. If you’re saying something about sex to a camera online (!), think three times. Or better yet, think and remain silent. Because these two concepts, “sex” and “Internet”, are like Twix sticks, like Lelik and Bolek, like Krzemelik and Vakhmurka, a complete lovebird. But many neglect this rule, and in vain, because they form a whole generation with their explanations.

For example, Asya Kazantseva, who recently became famous as a popularizer of science and recently went to Georgia, shared in one of the social networks that she had unsuccessful sex and was going to see a psychologist upon this request. .

So Asya has prepared a bingo: video interview, sex, psychologist and dissatisfaction with sex. No one on the internet has ever been able to surpass it or surpass it. For a few days now, screens have been burning at night and keyboards have been melting. And it would seem, what do we care about other people’s gender? But the truth is that Asya said all this on camera with the expectation that we would be interested. Secondly, a certain large crowd sees Kazantseva as a representative of a generation, a reflection of the aspirations of this generation. So it was very interesting to learn how this generation solved the problem of failed sex.

Asya Kazantseva says: “Recently I had unsuccessful sex. What will happen next? The next week, the boy and girl meet and the boy says, “My therapist thinks this way and that. “I haven’t seen my therapist yet, but I’ll go on Thursday,” I say. So the problem of unsuccessful sex is solved by a psychologist.

Just like that? Something went wrong and people spent their money on a psychologist?

What is “failed sex”? Did it not get hard, didn’t spark, or was it just painful? You don’t have to be a psychologist to understand that this happens and for a million reasons. And if the partners are not 19 years old, then they know about it and have encountered such failures in their lives. Why can’t we discuss sex and find out what problems arise? Don’t know how to talk to each other and need a third person to figure out your gender?

What kind of new trend is going to a psychologist with any problem? The boss is rude; There are unprocessed childhood traumas here. The man abandoned her – she will not survive the divorce of her parents to the end. Any question is possible. Even if you are always late and do not submit your work on time, perhaps this is not sloppiness, but a deep psychological problem.

Why doesn’t this generation want to make at least some effort and face the problems? Try to figure something out yourself. Do not immediately contact a psychologist for help. Don’t tell millions of viewers on the internet that gender is class C. At this rate, they’ll soon be unable to even buy shoes on their own, let alone have sex.

Asya Kazantseva probably wanted her to look very developed and conscious.

But after all, it looks completely scary: a person, faced with difficulties, immediately folds his hands and runs to a psychologist in order to pay him money and not solve the problem on his own.

Life constantly confronts us with choices; Every day we make decisions about issues much more complex than “chicken or fish.” A few years ago Asya wrote a book about how the brain works. Now it seems like it’s time to read this book to him. Because the discussion of failed sex will continue for a long time until someone else interrupts the agenda.

The author expresses his personal opinion, which may not coincide with the position of the editors.