Researchers from the University of Nicosia in Cyprus explored how people of various genders and ages evaluate the long-term benefits of being in a close, intimate partnership. The findings appear in Evolutionary Psychology, a peer‑reviewed scientific journal.
Two studies were carried out, gathering data from a total of 766 participants who completed online surveys that listed the positive aspects of long-term intimate relationships. The researchers then identified 82 factors and condensed them into 10 core dimensions. These dimensions include emotional support, social acceptance, sexual satisfaction, companionship and shared activities, positive emotions, the ability to give and receive care, safe sex, love and passion, shared financial responsibilities, and overall stability.
From these dimensions, factors were grouped into intrinsic benefits, such as love and passion, and extrinsic benefits, such as social recognition. The analysis showed that people assign different weights to the same factors based on gender, age, and relationship status. For instance, women tended to place higher emphasis on love and passion as well as the capacity to both give and receive care. In contrast, older participants often rated social acceptance and positive emotions as less crucial, while still recognizing the importance of support and stability.
The researchers concluded that individuals, regardless of personal backgrounds, tend to value a mix of emotional and practical elements when considering long-term, intimate relationships. The study highlights how personal priorities shift with life stage and social context, yet the core appeal of enduring connection remains strong across groups.
Prior investigations have sought to identify which traits contribute to a satisfying relationship for women, among other demographics. This body of work supports a broader understanding that successful long-term partnerships often blend deep emotional bonds with reliable, practical collaboration.
Overall, the results suggest that long-term relationships offer a combination of personal fulfillment and practical advantages that are appreciated across a spectrum of ages and genders, though the emphasis on specific benefits can vary by individual circumstances and social expectations.
Note: The insights summarized above reflect the study methodology and conclusions reported in Evolutionary Psychology, with attribution to the researchers and their institution.