Infertility is rarely a simple, single cause. Often, couples experience a long wait or an unexpectedly quick pregnancy after worrying about myths. In a discussion with socialbites.ca, Denis Banny, an obstetrician-gynecologist associated with Gemotest Laboratory, outlines the common misconceptions about conceiving and explains how pregnancy truly happens. These insights help separate fact from fiction and support informed decisions about family planning.
The first misconception is that pregnancy only occurs when ovulation happens. In reality, conception happens when sperm reach a mature egg. It is possible to become pregnant on any day of the cycle, including during menstruation, though the odds are smaller. Ovulation does not always occur in the middle of the cycle; the egg can mature days before or after. If the egg is not yet ready, sperm can survive in the uterus and fallopian tubes for about 3 to 5 days and still fertilize once the egg arrives, the doctor notes.
Another widespread belief is that breastfeeding prevents pregnancy. This idea is based on two observations: the absence of a regular menstrual cycle after birth and the influence of prolactin, the hormone that drives milk production. Prolactin does affect egg maturation, but not to a drastic extent, and the lack of menstruation does not guarantee an absence of ovulation. Therefore, there remains a real chance of pregnancy while breastfeeding, and barrier methods can be considered to prevent unwanted pregnancy.
The third and fourth myths revolve around sexual positions. Many people think that the timing or the posture during intercourse determines the chances of conceiving or even the sex of the baby. Some believe elevating the legs, placing a pillow under the hips, or performing a specific pose will ensure pregnancy. Others claim that the partner on top influences the baby’s gender. The expert counters these ideas, explaining that conception is not dependent on posture. Healthy partners and normal vaginal discharge allow sperm to enter the uterus naturally. The sex of the unborn child is determined by the chromosomes in the fertilizing sperm, not by how the bodies are positioned during sex.
The fifth myth is the fear of infertility after months of trying. In most cases, infertility can only be diagnosed after a year of unsuccessful attempts by either partner. Until then, it is not possible to label the situation definitively. The doctor emphasizes practical steps: avoid daily intercourse, as it may reduce sperm quality and timing. Spacing intercourse to roughly every two to three days throughout the cycle helps ensure healthy sperm production and an optimal window for fertilization.
Beyond these myths, maintaining a healthy lifestyle matters. Both partners should focus on balanced nutrition, regular physical activity, adequate sleep, and minimizing stress. If attempts to conceive do not yield results after a reasonable period, seeking guidance from a specialist is advisable. A thorough evaluation can help identify any underlying issues and guide evidence-based next steps.
In summary, conception depends on a complex interplay of timing, physiology, and overall health. Dispelling myths about ovulation timing, breastfeeding, sexual posture, and infertility can reduce anxiety and empower couples to make informed choices. The core message is clear: pregnancy is possible in various circumstances, and proactive, informed planning matters more than popular tales. These insights come from medical professionals who base guidance on current reproductive science and clinical experience.
Source: Denis Banny, obstetrician-gynecologist with Gemotest Laboratory, provided context and clarified these points for socialbites.ca. Notes reflect clinical understanding and standard reproductive health practice.