Questions that are too personal and intimate on a first date can destroy a developing relationship, so potential partners should not be too persistent. Mentioned in this publication publications Psychology Today.
According to Aharon Ben-Zeev, a professor and emotion researcher at the University of Haifa in Israel, providing accurate information on a first date causes people to focus on the negative aspects of each other’s personalities, which harms romantic interest.
The scientist emphasized that the worst topics to talk about on a first date will probably be questions about people’s previous relationships, especially their sexual experiences.
At the same time, you should not be completely closed when meeting a partner. The best strategy is to gradually satisfy each other’s natural curiosity.
Aaron Ben-Zeev explained that it is possible and necessary to share information about yourself, since openness is one of the most important components of a healthy and trusting relationship. However, this should be postponed until the initial hobby develops into something bigger and deeper.
Psychologists before explainedand how different perceptions of pornography can cause problems in relationships and marriage.