March 19 seen Information that blogger Lerchek (Valeria Chekalina – socialbites.ca) filed for divorce from her husband Artem Chekalin due to tax problems. Sociopsychologist Nina Rubshtein told socialbites.ca why families often break up after many years of marriage.
“Every difficulty in life is a test for spouses who have moral values and love for each other. The less developed people are morally, spiritually and personally, the more stressed they become when faced with serious troubles. “They are looking for someone to blame, they are sharing property, they are taking revenge and they only think about themselves,” he said.
The expert stated that mature people who experience problems come together, help and support each other. Nina Rubshtein recommends that those who feel a crisis but want to maintain their relationships should prepare a joint action plan.
“Agree on how you will solve the problem, determine who does what, coordinate actions with each other. Change daily what works and what doesn’t. Don’t settle for one solution to a problem; If it doesn’t work, consider new ones,” suggests the psychologist.
Rubstein also recommends finding supportive and motivating words for each other, sharing positive motivators you find, and avoiding hanging out with people who negatively influence you. According to Rubstein, in a long-term relationship it is necessary to please each other.
“Both people in a couple need resources to cope. Find the opportunity to enjoy everything: take turns preparing breakfast or dinner for each other, do it together, tell funny news, choose a time for a walk in the park, arrange an unexpected date,” said the psychologist.
Lerchek in March 2023 happened Defendant in a criminal case regarding tax evasion in the amount of 311 million rubles. Her husband was charged with aiding and abetting tax evasion. According to the Investigative Committee, the Chekalins legalized more than 130 million rubles in April 2021, buying dollars with them, “thus masking the connection of the legalized funds with the criminal source of origin.” blogger at the end of february implied He said that he went through a difficult period in his marriage with his wife Artem due to the courts.
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