Infidelity in marriage can be caused by a lack of emotional intimacy between partners, inconsistency in sexual temperament, and a number of other reasons. They were chosen by Oleg Zaitsev, psychologist and founder of Sexpedition games, for socialbites.ca.
According to Zaitsev, often the difference in the sexual structure of the spouses, that is, the biological parameters on which the need for sex depends, leads to the infidelity of husband and wife.
“Many couples have an ideal mutual understanding; have the same view on interests, goals and values, but their sexual temperaments do not match. This factor is a genetic feature and not every person can “reset” his libido. In most cases, conflicts arise if partners are not ready to agree. As a result, an unsatisfied spouse considers physical infidelity,” explained Zaitsev.
In addition, according to the psychologist, lack of emotional closeness, that is, mutual understanding, respect and trust in a couple, can lead to betrayal.
“If partners do not communicate with each other, do not have deep conversations, refuse to share their feelings and thoughts, do not feel supported and do not trust each other, they want to fill this need with someone else. “This also triggers the search for side experience,” he said.
The expert added that many people cheat for revenge.
“It can result from betrayal by one partner or a long-term sense of rejection from the partner. The cheater feels abandoned and is resentful and angry with his partner. Often a person does not want to be in favor of close relationships, but decides to take this step to harm the partner who initially disturbed him,” said the psychologist.
Finally, he believes that people often cheat to diversify their sexual lives.
“At the beginning of a relationship, hormone levels peak and lovers feel a constant sexual attraction to each other. Over time, this desire dulls, and if one partner ignores the needs of the other and does not want to improve the quality of intimate life, this can lead to betrayal,” warned the psychologist.
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