Couples may argue on their first holiday together for three reasons. candidate of psychological sciences, researcher at the Psychodemia educational center and “Who am I and what do I want?”, told socialbites.ca. The speaker of the lecture explained. Elena Lavrova at Skillbox.
According to the psychologist, one of the reasons for the conflict may be that the couple finds itself in a new situation.
“Every couple has their own unique scenarios in daily life: Who gets up at what time, what does they do and when. Your daily routine on holiday may be very different from normal. And sometimes it is difficult for partners to adapt to this,” Lavrova explained. He recommended planning in advance what you’ll do on vacation to avoid arguments.
The psychologist added that the second reason may be the partners’ different expectations about relaxation.
“Or someone on vacation plans to finally get some sleep, while others, on the contrary, want to get up at dawn to get as many new impressions as possible. It is important to find a compromise so that everyone feels comfortable,” said the expert. He suggested discussing your preferences before going on vacation.
Finally, the third reason is the excessive intensity of communication.
“There may be situations where partners are not used to spending so much time together. And if before some features of the other half were not so pronounced, then during the holidays they can be especially noticeable and annoying,” warned the psychologist.
In such cases, he sometimes suggested leaving.
“For example, one partner might go to the museum in the morning and the other to the local market,” Lavrova said.
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