– Why did you agree to take part in the “Heart of Klava” project? What is this man talking about?
– This is a project about the work of a matchmaker. Friday, which provides a unique opportunity to show the whole country, including grooms, brides and their parents, what a unique profession this is! I am very grateful to your channel. Also, my job was to teach young girls, including Klava Koka, how to look for the man of their dreams. So both stars and the most ordinary girls understand what kind of men they are attracted to and what prevents them from building the ideal relationship that they dream of. So that potential brides can see their mistakes and most importantly try to correct them by regulating their behavior.
– As an experienced matchmaker, how do you find Klava Koka as a client?
– A good client: from a young, beautiful, well-bred family with a dowry. He also listens to his mentor and tries hard. There are more such customers.
– How do you see Russian men aged 25-35? Are they ready for a serious relationship and marriage?
– Preparation for marriage is determined by being, not by age. But starting a family is not a good motivator for modern youth. Lack of confidence in the future due to low income and the inability to meet their needs do not contribute to the desire to start a family. At the same time, the idea that “God will give a child, he will give it to a child”, which works for our generation, does not work for them. Add here the harrowing parenting experience that has turned into psychological trauma for many of today’s children. And as a result, we are faced with a generation that is afraid to start a family. For this reason, we parents must first let go of the threat and moral pressure. Instead, we must begin to engage in a human dialogue where, through joint efforts and example, we can find a way out.
– Do you think it is better for girls of Klava Koka age to pay attention to peers or older men? What is the best age gap?
– It is not possible for all brides of the same age to give a general answer to this question. It is fraught with consequences. Everyone has their own idea of happiness. Therefore, the recommendation should be individual. The most important thing for a modern bride to learn for herself is that it doesn’t matter if she is an influential business woman or a housewife; this is just a name. In any case, a woman is a human being. Never lose yourself in any relationship, especially marriage. No one should be someone else’s accessory. If you give your all and put someone else above you, no one will love or respect you.
– Is it true that for a marriage to be sound, husband and wife must be of the same dough?
– The strength of marriage does not depend on the “test”. Any relationship stands firmly on all fours: attention, understanding, support and care. Unfortunately for children growing up in the ’90s, the harrowing parenting experience turned into a psychological trauma. Girls who don’t have a father don’t trust men, and boys are afraid of marrying because of their father, who his wife doesn’t respect and who sees him as stupid and half-witted. If a parent has not given enough or not at all what is needed, the adult child will cure their “lameness” at the partner’s expense.
– Which stars other than Klava Koka would you like to assist you in your quest for a husband?
Whoever comes to help, I will also help him.
– According to you, “falling in love with a person is a purely technical matter.” Please explain in more detail what you mean in this situation.
– Yes! Falling in love with a person is a purely technical process. Let’s go in order. If you don’t love, you can’t love. Falling in love is the beginning of love. Love requires sympathy. Developing sympathy takes time and attention. Interest is the best motivation to start a relationship in the future. Thus, we created the conditions of our hero and the opportunity to take care of our heroes. And you will find out whether this plan works or not by looking at our project.
– What “red flags” should you watch out for at the start of a relationship?
— I will highlight seven points. First, if you still don’t know his immediate surroundings. The second is that he always checks if you have forgotten any of your belongings in his apartment. Third – if he is constantly busy, your meetings will be very infrequent or spontaneous. Fourth, you feel that he is hiding most of his life from you. Fifth – only if you are connected through sex and communication. Sixth – if he does not like that you emphasize that he is your man. Seventh – if he gets angry talking about a common future, and he himself avoids them. In this case, you need to talk to him seriously, discuss your relationship. The result of the conversation will either be a transition to the “double” level or the end of the story. Three months – it turns out by experience – is the critical period of the “knowledge” phase and determines the future fate of your relationship.
Why do young people’s marriages often break down?
– Adult children are not aware of their feelings, so they cannot understand who they need, how to live with a partner. They just have first feelings and get married. And then they get frustrated and get divorced because they lack the ability to support a partner in trouble and act as a team. This needs to be learned.
– Shakira and Natalie Portman broke up with their husbands because of their husband’s infidelity. Why are beautiful women cheated on?
– Men cheat on both beautiful and ugly girls. Only the impotent don’t change. It is a masculine nature or a general program of a quantitative indicator of the continuation of the human race. And I have explained in detail in my books how to disable this program.
What projects are you currently working on? How do you manage to combine work with family and raising grandchildren?
All projects are about love and the pursuit of love. “Friday!” We work in close cooperation with Why am I successful? I’m planning right.
— Has the demand for matchmaking services increased due to the departure of popular dating apps from Russia?
– There is no comparison here. Matchmaking services are individual. It’s like working with a personal fitness trainer. And dating sites look like an independent search. Feel the Difference?