In adolescence, I basically liked handsome boys. Over the years, intelligence has become the dominant element. He later highlighted sense of humor and finally, it was a priority for them to be handymen and be able to hang some curtains, fix the tub faucet, or figure out why the differential in the electrical panel was tripping. It is clear who adapts less and whose tastes to different life stages and needs. Kindness was a quality I valued, but one that didn’t seem necessary to me. Maybe it’s because I’ve never met a really bad person. At most, with some badass, but they don’t fall into the category of villains, they’re just an appealing mix of weirdo, misfit, and pimp.
to be a good person This is an understatement. At times they turned us down using the cheap excuse that we were too good for them, and I heard someone was such a nice guy that it looked silly. A friend of mine broke up with his wife because she was so extraordinary that she was on the verge of boredom, and we often say that some things are too good to be true. We are suspicious of people who are very generous, understanding, or genuinely interested in the well-being of others. Unless they are dedicated to missions, our society questions whether such human and altruistic characters really exist. In a discussion about volunteering, a student criticized those who dedicate some of their time to volunteering, calling them egomaniacs because all they want is the admiration of the rest of society, according to him. This is the courtyard.
Some figures are always angels. We assume the benevolent unconditionalness of a mother or grandparent, and yet it’s hard for us to accept that our bosses stand out in the same way. Qualities such as determination, demanding, and productivity seem to be incompatible with being a good person. Here is the question. Many believe that kindness is a quality that draws others in and deprives those who use it of other valuable virtues. I do not believe in that.
I couldn’t list the traits of a good person, but I know it’s much better to surround yourself with them. They make life more enjoyable. They tend to have a genuine interest in others and do not believe they are the center of the world. The good people I know are non-judgmental and cheerfully non-biased. They try to integrate different views and interests, even if they do not coincide, and they tend to be generous. They give not only with their material goods, but also from themselves. They share their time, their way of life. Being good people is a reinforcer of other virtues. Gentle intelligence is more powerful than plain intelligence. The same thing happens with the ability to lead companies or projects. The leadership of an organization of good people goes further with its teams and goals. What can be said about teachers who are tolerant and tolerant towards students as well as being knowledgeable about their subject? They are lucky.
Kindness is a quality that is valued more as we get older. Growth has its positive sides.