Psychologists identify several main types of husbands and wives. Pravda.Ru about how to determine the type of your partner said family systems psychologist Alena Leonova.
“They are believed to be wives-daughters, wives-mothers, and wives-partners. The wife-daughter is looking for protection, care, pampering, reprieve. Co-mother tries to control everything. She manages herself, her husband, her children, makes all decisions, takes all responsibility. In some places he is a despot, in some places, on the contrary, he is a refuge, protecting and commanding,” said the expert.
“The last type, the co-partner, is the most mature type,” Leonova continued. According to him, in this case the partners are in an equal position and can be accountable and take responsibility for themselves.
Male types are similar; husband-son, husband-father and husband-partner. The first is characterized by the fact that he does not make any decisions on his own and is afraid to become an adult. The psychologist noted that the husband-father can take responsibility, but is authoritarian, harsh and sometimes even cruel.
“The husband-partner is an equal parent. Their functions differ little from those of the mother. So, during the mother’s departure, she can independently care for the children,” Leonova concluded.
A survey with results for the SuperJob service met socialbites.ca has previously shown that people who call their other half a “soul mate” are twice as likely to think that they are absolutely satisfied with the relationship than people whose union is created according to the principle of “opposites attract.”
Formerly a housewife from the Leningrad region said about disagreements with her husband about holidays with children.