People with whom we feel weak and miserable after communicating are considered energy vampires. About who they are the most, Pravda.Ru said candidate of psychological sciences, developer of the theory of adaptive intelligence, Valery Gut.
According to him, an energy vampire does not have to be someone who deliberately provokes and manipulates other people for their own benefit. Often these are people who suffer from their impotence and inner emptiness and take resources from their loved ones. The expert states that this is because they do not know how to extract them in a more environmentally friendly way.
The psychologist added that people who suffer from violations of personal boundaries from childhood, who have not learned to take responsibility and be independent, become energy vampires. Such people can be lonely, lost, not understanding what they want to do in life. Also, energy vampires often don’t know how to find their own source of joy and satisfaction.
Formerly Stanislav Sambursky, business psychologist, Dr. Clinical psychologist at Anikina’s Clinic and author of the Ecological Psychologist Zen channel said “Gazeta.ru” says that the vast majority of people who have problems in relationships, health or money, the cause of the problem is childhood psychological trauma.