Let’s imagine we draw a continuous line and place it at one end. conformism and in the other unsuitabilityand then we go through topic by topic so you can immerse yourself in love, politics, religion, laws, marriage, immigration, etc. You can evaluate the topics. Where would you be?
Of course, you think that being able to create a unitary or singular criterion will depend on the chosen topic, but if you think deeply, you will understand that this is not the case, and that the position you adopt on one of them is different. It will serve the rest and those who continue to add.
We can call this cognitive consistencyConsidering this, if you are a non-conformist, you will be so in every aspect of your life, and conversely, if you are a non-conformist, this will mark your behavior.
Society challenges us by testing this cognitive consistency; educational development They are what determine our decisions, perspectives, thoughts and beliefs on big issues.
It is characteristic that childhood and above all YouthThey are periods of evolution in which one of the most distinctive features of our knowledge is precisely the struggle with the predetermined.
Let’s say it will be like that unsuitability in its pure form as our language understands and defines it, hostility towards whatever we want to add to what is established in the political, social, moral, familial, aesthetic, economic, communicative order.
I think the hostile tone is what gives character to those who don’t follow the actual rules, because peaceful opposition Protesting by raising his hand and asking for permission to speak.
if we look at this behavior of any young person, We will see that its natural state is open competition against everything normative, that conflict and confrontation increase when the norm comes from above.
Today, a selective maladjustment among the youngest without intending to overgeneralize. Based on this premise, what is designated as something prohibited and/or imposed by the recognized authority acquires added value and automatically becomes attractive, even if it had not aroused the slightest interest for them until that moment.
Another of the basic premises on which stubborn misfits of all ages rely is Carpe Diem Although it is attributed only to the youngest, it is also healthy among adults. Live in the moment and be guilty Some of the rules set by the authority become very attractive when you live a disordered life, outside the routine cycle and where the search for strong emotions is constant.